Victoria Hope, Shelton CT woman and newborn triplets found dead
Posted by webmasterFeb 3
Victoria Hope, a Redwood Circle woman and her three newborn triplets were found dead in her home Tuesday afternoon, but police believe foul play was not a factor in their deaths.
The woman’s mother arrived home about 1 p.m. and found her daughter and the three infants, all boys, on the floor, police Detective Ben Trabka said.
Trabka would not identify the woman, but sources said she was Victoria Hope, 27. The house is owned by her parents, William and Frances Hope.
Police learned about the incident when the woman’s mother called for help, Trabka said. When officers and emergency medical crews arrived at the home, the woman and the babies were already dead, he said.
“We received a medical call and found that a woman had died,” Trabka said. “It appears that she died giving birth to the triplets in the house.”
Autopsy results were not available Tuesday night.
It appeared the triplets were carried full-term, Trabka said, although he added the family was apparently unaware that Hope was pregnant.
The Hopes’ home is on a quiet residential street in a wooded area near Walnut Tree Hill and Ripton roads.
Neighbors were shocked to hear about the deaths.
“She was a wonderful, vibrant, energetic, terrific girl and a great mother,” said neighbor Virginia Mihalko, who said she had known Hope since she was 2 years old.
Hope was the mother of two other children, a 6-year-old boy and a 2-year-old girl, Mihalko said.
She had been a member of the Shelton High School band before graduating in 2001.
“She played the glockenspiel,” Mihalko said. “She always had a smile on her face. They are wonderful neighbors.”
Jamie Sandin, who knew Hope since their freshman year at Shelton High School, said she was shocked when she heard her best friend of 13 years had died.
“My legs went numb, I got nauseous. I couldn’t understand how it could happen,” she said. “I called my mom; I didn’t know what else to do.”
Sandin, who got to know Hope in drama club, said her death is a devastating loss.
“She was an incredible mother, a loyal friend and she touched everyone’s life in a positive way,” she said. “We always hung out and would have a great time together.”
Hope taught Sandin how to drive a standard car, and the girls would dye Easter eggs together.
“She was always so carefree,” Sandin said. “She always had a positive attitude. She was always laughing; she always had a smile on her face.”
Whenever she had a bad day, she said she knew could turn to Hope.
“She always found a way to make it better,” Sandin said. “She was so generous and so caring. She would give us her shirt off her back in an instant and not think twice about it. She was just a beautiful person.”
As Sandin spoke to the Connecticut Post, she said she was speaking online to about 18 grieving friends.
“Everyone is just devastated,” she said.
Sandin said she had no idea her best friend was pregnant.
“I spoke with her yesterday,” she said. “I never heard her say anything about it.”
She said she just wants to know why she didn’t tell anyone — including her boyfriend, Ricky, the father of her two children, Devin, 6, and Gabby, 2.
“I’m waiting to sign online for someone to say `Gotcha!’ and that it was all fake,” Sandin said with a sigh. “She was an absolutely amazing person. The world will be sad that she is gone.”
Jesse Patrick, who knew Hope at Shelton High School, said she was a proud mom.
“She was a great mother,” she said. “The few times I ran into her recently, she lit up when she talked about her kids. She was very involved.”
She said she would regularly post statuses on Facebook about her children.
A neighbor who didn’t want to be identified said that she also watched Hope grow up and was crushed to learn that she had passed away.
“It is a true tragedy,” the woman said. “She was really a delightful person and deserved to live a long life and see her children grow up and have children.”
Hope would often stop to say hello and chat, the neighbor said. “She was just a friendly, nice person,” she said.
“My heart goes out to her parents,” the woman said. “They have lost not only their daughter, but three new grandchildren.”
According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, death from childbirth is relatively rare, with fewer than 600 American women dying annually while giving birth as of 2006.
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Trabka said. "It appears that she died giving birth to the triplets in the house."
Autopsy results were not available Tuesday night.
It appeared the triplets were carried full-term, Trabka said, although he added the family was apparently unaware that Hope was pregnant.
Full term with triplets and no-one knew? Not her boyfriend? mother? best friend?
No kidding. How do you hide a belly with three infants in there? Geez. Thanks for the comment. JD
first of all " full-term" for triplets is about 34 weeks. I'm a triplet mom and I didn't even make it that far. You might be able to get away with hiding a singleton pregnancy or saying " I didn't know I was pregnant" ( like that show) with one baby but NOT 3! You get huge FAST, there are lots of possible complications that could occur and a perinatologist is usually needed to monitor the pregnancy. I find this story sad but I think there's a lot not being said.
I am also a triplet mom and I agree. There is no way that she did not know she was pregnant. I was so huge I was unable to walk at the end. When the babies moved and turned around at the same time, it was like there were aliens in my stomach. Their movement was quite visible.
There must be more to this story. This is such a tragedy.
Tori will be missed terribly by all of us. We (her family) are in deep grief and trying to hold all the pieces together and trying to get through this. The outpouring of support is comforting to us..
The question of did she know or did she not know may never be answered. But the answer, whatever it may be, will not change the fact that she left behind so many people who loved her.
I will not remember Tori as “breaking headline news”. I will remember her as a loving part of my family, who supported and loved my son. She was eager to help everyone and always had a “we will get through this” attitude in every situation. She did everything with concern for the well being of her family in mind.
In posting your comments, please take into consideration her grieving family and the two small children, who may some day in the future access these news articles. Please help them to remember their mother as the always active, vibrant, caring woman that she was.
it doesn't say she didn't know she was pregnant she just didn't tell anyone she was. she kept giving people excuses of other medical conditions for her weight gain
Nonna, my heart just breaks for you, your son, and the Hope family. There is an entire show on TLC devoted to people who did not know they were pregnant. People should not judge; they should mourn the loss of a bright light, a sister, a daughter. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
This is a tragic and heartbreaking story which has caught the interest of the nation. I do not want to offend, but HOW could this happen? Tori had friend and family and a sweetheart, too. Anyone would talk with this loving young mom if she had wanted to talk. Again, God bless her surviving family…but can't stop asking WHY?
Nonna, I am so sorry for your loss. As a triplet mom myself, I don't understand how no one else knew she was pregnant, and I imagine that will be the focus of many comments. Obviously, things happen that no one can ever understand or comprehend.
I will pray for your family. You have my deepest sympathy.
the second time she did not acknowledge a pregnancy and had a surprise delivery? single mother of two who has always lived with her parents? Seems like something was wrong there…Very sad.
Nonna – my heart, thoughts and prayers go out to you…
For the rest of the people with questions/comments that are not exactly appropriate, please consider the following:
1) The media will use any and all information and spin it enough if it would signify an extra penny (or click, for a website) in their pockets
2) If your own family would be struck by death of a loved one, regardless of the circumstances, how would you feel if some random person were to comment in a way that may be considered tactless.
Again, my condolences and prayers go out to all near and dear to Victoria "Tori" Hope.
as a mom to triplets who carried them for 35 weeks I cannot imagine what this poor woman went through. Carrying triplets is a such a high risk pregnancy and it's sad that she felt she couldn't tell anyone. My prayers are w/ her family.
I completely agree with Pabz. My younger brother (19) died of a drug overdose. The media was all over the story and definetly spun information. It is no one's business why Victoria did not tell her family. As fellow human beings, we should all grieve with her family and loved ones in this tragic loss. My heart goes out to all of you and try to lean upon one another during this tragic time.
I am so sorry for your loss.